Re: Pro/cons Of Adoption
Now for my own view..I mean in the end it is how you live really. my cousins kids who ar etechnically na mehram dont treat me as na mehram and vice versa. to me they are like my kids, i would not look at them in a different way, same goes for the twisn I adopted, even without the strange loophole, if they grew up, its note like I would look at them and go..yeah baby..nice. thats just not right. On the other hand there are ppl who would molest their children, biological or adopted, it highly depends on the person.
Agreed.
There is always a sensible aproach. The people who are good will remain good no matter what, even with the na mahrams. But the bad people will remain bad no matter what mahram or no mahamr.
You adopting two kids at the same time is very nice gesture and turned out good for you and the kids at the same time. They look great in the pics in your journal. I hope all of you find nothing but happiness in each other.