Priciples and Practicality of Marriage

Lifestyle Relationships
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One can have all the philosophical discourse about compatibility, core issues, expectations, deal breakers BUT practically:

  • The more options you have, the more difficult it is to arrive at a decision, the more likely you are to regret over it later.
  • The more you know about potential rishta, and the longer, more likely it is to find them incompatible.
  • Its the pleasure of the company of a person, that can make you compromise on many things that you would otherwise consider deal breaker.
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greaaaat thread!!!

aj kal to a shaadi was seeming like a business deal on gs!

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in my opinion...lets all chill out...have lesser expectations and accept people and build lives together instead of looking for millionaires.

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I think this is really good insight into marriage actually. I suppose it's the fundamental reasoning behind the concept of arranged marriages. I agree with a varying degree to all, especially the first point - that is completely on point!

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How do you get to assess ‘pleasure’ of company of potential spouse, remaining within the bounds of our culture and islamic boundaries? :hmmm:

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^^^ uff!! pleasure has more than one interpretation!! Where's the roll eyes emoticon?!

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Well said!

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:rolleyes:

I know what meaning was that, and that was what i was referring to as well. Its the perviness in the eye of beholder here :stuck_out_tongue:

How do you plan to enjoy someones company…are we talking about dating? To hangout with the potentials, spend enough time to guage whether you enjoy their company? These were the questions i was alluding to.

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Mardon ko doosri shadi ka haq wapis karo zaalim aurton :mad:

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wo haq kabi auratoon ny nahiliya, murd khud hi insaf nahi ker saktay :mad3:

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True that Ico. Shadi has become JAVA programming instead of HTML

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^ :omg:

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Can u elaborate for the non-ITs.

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Priciples and Practicality of Marriage

Principles & practicality of marriage....the "wedding" is 1-3 days, the marriage..forever.

Girls, pay more attention to being a wife, rather than a bride. Shaadi preps are all well and good and should be enjoyed, by all means...but I think more emphasis should be places on marriage preps.

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What happens when the pleasure wears off and people realize maybe maybe those deal-breakers were a pretty decent guideline after all?

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They come here and ask question

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Tell me what field are you and I’ll use appropriate analogy

:chai:

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@Sasha , java is bunto jora, html is a simple jora from neighbourhood cloth market

dunno why the title made me think its a post marriage issues thread. Op got disturbed by seeing nadz new thread, so wanted to give practical advise to all.
1 & 3, failed to construe. Though not curious to know either

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I didnt even read her new thread, glad though she posted something after a while.