aka our parents, uncles, aunts.. Is is the lack of a good healthy relationship with their own spouse that has caused them to be so cynical and unwelcoming of the idea of romance? They cannot stand their kids or any one else’s kids going out with someone .. or even having a loving relationship with their spouses. Like moms cannot stand it if their sons do something nice for the daughters-in-law or if he even respects her enough to ask her opinion about things. It’s like HELLO?! Why the hell are you treating her with respect and love?!
It’s like heck..why the daughter-in-law must have what I couldn’t have..Let everyone be as miserable as me!
I wonder if our generation will be the same with our kids. I think I will want my kid to have what makes him/her happy ( in terms of a life parnter). It will only make me happy to see my son being good to my daughter-in-law( no matter I approve of her or not). Heck I would throw a cow if it is anything otherwise.
How do you think you will handle your kid if he/she decides to marry someone you don’t really approve of?
My parents are not like that, neither are my in-laws. I think you are talking about the generation before them aka our grandparents(maybe). Even then in my family it was never like that, couple are allowed to do whatever they want.
How do you think you will handle your kid if he/she decides to marry someone you don’t really approve of?
Difficult to say anything now, it greatly depends on circumstances
Although the general thought is mostly correct about earlier generation being unromantic, cynical and kabab main haddi and unappeiciative of love and romance between married couple.
One must desire to be not like them but I am sorry to state that the topic author may very well turn out to be completely opposite of what she is longing for, in later part of her life. This is according to my analysis.
The person is overly emotional and exessively possesive. The rational thinking is not her cup of tea ( well most of the time ). Girls who show these behaviors are bound to become cynical and overly critical of anything and everything around.
She may try to subside this behaviour by working on problem areas and specific counselling. Anyway , Best of Luck :k:
Codey is right. Look at yourself a_b_h_c, you are no longer a teen, yet you still have an attitude of a misbehaved teenager. He tried to respond to your query and you came out with your poison tongue. I think not only codey made hois point, you actually proved him right.
Although generation gap is a reality, it does not mean that what the elders are trying to tell you is out of malice. They actually believe what they are saying is right, they are the experienced one. I think the major issue is that of communication rather than of having different views.
dude.. he started it...don't even try to turn this on me. He made a point to settle scores.. whilst providing little to none of his own wisdom on the subject matter. I wasn't the one throwing the first stone. Jeez!
Man, and I mostly post in shor sharaba, I wonder how poisonous one can get while reviewing movies. It's all your perception uncleji.
Whether the personal analysis of abhc is right or wrong thats another topic...that still doesnt answer why most parents are like that?
I personaly think that the parents get somewhat jealous of the fact that they didnt get to choose the person for you and u picked this person without their input. Even if u communicated to them properly the jealousy and the hurt of ego wont go away for the parents.
My mom went through alot of **** with her in laws, and she said she'd never put her own daughter in law through that. Even though she mght not like her sometimes, she won't say anything to my brother because she doesnt' want to start a fight in their home.
Some people go through rough times and they either decide to take it out on others, make them miserable too, or they overcome it and realize how hurtful adn destructive that behavior can be and never put another through that.
