pretty pathetic question...

Lifestyle Relationships
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but aah well…

dilemma..

a girl i work with who once was a pretty good friend… well she’s pregnant. However, she hasnt told me. Her cousin is a real close friend of mine informed me awhile back. After I went on my lil vaction, the colleage at work told everyone in the office..

now, im not sure whether i should congratulate her or not.. i know it sounds totally pathetic.. but the girl has distanced herself so much from me (and im 50% to blame cus i dont make the effort anymore either).. but if she hasnt told me… how do i congratulate her? it looks sooo odd!

she’s even informed my best friend that shes pregnant and didnt tell me :konfused: i dont get it… am i that ugly?

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mmm - i would just say congrats anyway - and if she asks - tell her that the friend told me.

shrugs

who would not want to be congratulated when they're having a baby?

3

i am sure if you don’t congratulate her, you will more terrible so i would say just a casual congrats should do.

PS: are we the only person on the whole forum, i dun’t know about u but i need to get a life :smack:

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i dunno dudes.. im just really hurt. I used to do so much for this girl.. and shes so rude to me at work.. i dnot get it..

neways i shall get the courage and congratulate her at the end of the day. I know i look bad… and thats the part thats bugging me. She’s the one whose been going around telling everypme… yet she hasnt told me.. geez she even told my closest friend who has no link to her… females :halo: Man, tsk.. Im really hurt… and i shouldnt be

bhoot, hahaha i know… its friday here. Im such a lazy butt

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hahaha.... thats what i do on fridays well except for listening to my boss boat stories and friggin guy leaves me all alone at noon to go up to the boat..... abh uss ke baadh he should not expect me to work right :)

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haha.. fridays are lazy days. Actually they're either too busy or really boring. Today is one of those days i can pretend im working... and noone will say a word

haha boat stories... how interesting

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we have mondays like that but i am luck i get out early cuz of the skool. since everyone knows my boss has a boat so no one really bothers him/ us on fridays.

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hahaha u r lucky. I come in early and i sitll have to wait for 5pm to go home... there is no justice in this world

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well someone has to cover for lazy bums like us right, warna duniya kaise chalegi :halo:

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so true.... hahaha

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Tell her she is getting too fat, so whats up!

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:rotfl: thats mean… the girl is a stick! i cant see her from 10 meters away.. mein tho shukar kar rahi hoon she has some meat on her now

I will try my best to congratulate her laterz… maybe i should send her an e-card… her desk is barely 2meters from mine :halo:

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If she couldn't be bothered to tell you, technically you don't even know she's pregnant, so what's the congrats for?

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^ thats what i thought... but i dont want to be crude.. and i think im being just that

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I think u should congratulate her. Give her a hug etc.
Tell her that u heard it from some of the office people,
and that u are happy for her. :)

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congratulate me!! i congratulated her... i had a good 5 min conversation with her too... aaaah sigh of relief

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congrats her anyway?

makes u a better person :hug:

and then let it go :slight_smile: