Re: Pressure from In-Laws to Have Kids!!!
I would suggest that it is time to have a long discussion with the hubby regarding priorities and then decide. Endlessly delaying a pregnancy can also be very counter-productive :) If for some reason the girl is not able to immediately conceive once protection is stopped, treatments can take a long time and be very harrowing.
I don't even know if this situation is real of if OP is just posting for fun made up scenarios. But I agree with stormraiser that if in-laws are interferring with a couple's personal life, it is time for them to have a long discussion and figure out what their priorities are. If a woman is not wanting to have children and it was previously discussed and agreed that they would wait 5 years after marriage, I think that both parties need to honor that agreement. If something has changed then the one who wants a change needs to discuss with the other to implement a change.
A wife is not there to give the in-laws grandchildren to rid them of their boredom, an object to satisfy a husband's sexual desires, or a maid to clean the house, cook, and manage the husband's and in-laws social calendar. A wife has rights upon her husband as does he and each person and thing has importance in your life. A marriage requires giving and taking from both husband and wife. If the balance in the relationship is off, one must every step to achieve that balance before bailing on the relationship.