Re: Present incriminating evidence
Njgal,
So far, everyone, for the most part, has said that the girl needs to be informed. It's just the right thing to do. And the matter shouldn't be delayed....because if the families agree to an engagement/marriage within the next few days....it becomes emotionally harder to back out such a situation. There are some desi parents who won't call of an engagement or wedding....just to protect reputation.....in spite of what awful rumors are swirling around about the guy. Time is of the essence, don't delay in encouraging your cousin to do what is right.