Presence of 3, 4 ot 5 marriagable sisters

[Ashy2010]

Re: Presence of 3, 4 ot 5 marriagable sisters

@Sara516

I would say no, because I wouldn’t want to be part of a family that doesn’t encourage their daughters to stand on their own two feet and place teh burden on the parents/brothers to marry them off.

Brother/parents have every right to help out and give gifts and whatnot to their daughters/sisters, but it should be on a want-to basis, not a have-to.

Yeah thats exactly my point. What if a girl has been working before marriage and then after marriage she is required to work again so that his husband can financially support his family. I know one rishta wali aunty says to such guys who demand working girls so that they can share their burden: “sharam karo, larki bechari shadi se pehle bhi kamai aur shadi k baad bhi”.

If the wife herself is willing to work, its her choice. But then again, her income will be her right. Its not that the husband spends all of his earnings to meet his financial responsibility and then becomes dependent on the wife’s earning to run their household.

Even if the guys sisters are earning, it is norm of our society to not take their money and it is the brother/ fathers who marry their sisters/ daughters. So its a tough bargain I guess.