Presence of 3, 4 ot 5 marriagable sisters

[Ashy2010]

Re: Presence of 3, 4 ot 5 marriagable sisters

@ZareenKhan

Hmm.

I would hope to marry into not such a big family (+6) but not due to the reasons you mentioned. However, i think at the end of the day you cant really pick and choose like that. It’s the complete package that makes you say yes or no. I am sure if everything is fine and just the fact remains that he has a big family, it woud be odd to let go of the rishta based on it.

I would have no problem having my share of responsibility in the family however financially? i dont think so. It’s the guy’s area and if he is sahi salamat then he better make it work, thank-you. And yes if it means that we can’t live as lavishly because of his responsibilities towards his family/sisters or even brothers then its fine, its his duty to provide for them first and then think about having a lavish life for us.

I have come across such guys who wanted me to do job after marriage because he has financial burden of his family. Somehow things did not proceed there. But there are guys who frankly demand that the wife does a job to help him run their house while he meets his responsibilities towards his parents and sisters. He would say, you knew my situation at the time of marriage. So now you shud support me.

Its not about JUST the big family. Its about having a big family and having to support them (marrying off sisters is a huge responsibility) while asking the wife to work also.