Re: Preparing your mind ..
-dont get stressed specially when someone say to you "7months hogaye shadi ko goodnews kab suna rahi ho we are waiting".....stress is not good for conceiving
-take folic acid tablets 3months before u plan to conceive
-stay healthy and happy and maintain your iron levels
-last but not least pray that Allah give u strength and make this beautiful journey (from conceiving till childbirth n also after birth)easy for you inshaAllah!
u have to bear the pains for very little time it will not stay for longer so dont get upset about it...
best of luck Daffyduck! :)