thx dear. some ppl never understand. i find this extremely rude to be compared with other bahu in the family.. its like i was a bad omen on the family becus of the fire in the house… fine, so maybe i was and am a bad omen in her son’s life but makin me feel so miserable by comparing was not necessary at all. i cant even begin to explain just how badly hurt i m by her comments. Allah knows how it hurt my soul.