mall, your MIL has an agenda it seems. She is trying to instill hatred and jealousy between you and the other bahu. Her plan is to divide and conquer, pitch you two against eachother and manipulate to try and get the best from both of you in some kind of a contest.
The best thing you can do is to IGNORE her comment because you know your blessing of a new child has NOTHING to do with the new bahu's qadam. She has not even stepped in your family officially yet.
Enjoy your preganancy as it is a special moment and your mental state will affect the unborn's journey to this world.
Congrats by the way.
EXACTLY!!! thaz my whole point. she is tryin to hurt me by sayin these things.. but trust me she wud never say gud things abt me to her, i mean she wudnt say the same things she has ben sayin to me, to her cus she is new she is being ultra nice and caring with her. its seems this is all only one sided, she wants to be in the new bahu's gud books so she will not say anything mean to her or compare her with me.
the second paragraph is what most of the GS members dont seem to understand. there seems to be no link or relevance of this woman to my baby. am i being overprotective.. maybe... am i being insecure, ofcourse cus who wud like in this moment of happiness, to be ignored and let someone else walk with the credit??
i m amazed with the way u answered my problems in such a mature way and understandin it in a way no other woman in this thread cud have understood and provided solution.. and that too comin from a GUY... i m very impressed.. thanks alot.. :)