Re: Pregnant.. my MIL said the nastiest and hurtful thing !! Dunno how 2 take out ang
tayyebeh its not abt being jealous. my MIL is outright blunt and subtly has shown many times how mch she favours her. like she said on my face that i m FIL’s choice and the girl is her choice (although i m related to my MIL and not my FIL, I m frm the same khandaan).. and when i said nahi aisi bat bhi nahi mein apki bhi pasand hon she kept quiet. i can give many examples but wots the use, itll waste ur and my time.
ofcourse when a person is a bahu for so many yrs someone comes up and steals the limelight it can be a bit of a tricky situation.. but its upto the MIL to treat both equally rite??? at the time when she compared me by sayin the new bahu ke kadam were nice, i DID NOT think she is puttin me down and i m longer in family and blah blah. all i thot that moment was, this is OUR gud news and she is spoilin it by sayin the new bahu’s kadam were auspicious and all. this was OUR moment and there was no need for her to bring the new gal in picture rite? its like u r givin her the credit for our new found happiness. that is what u guys dun seem to understand.