and entisar,** i think u r a male**... cus a female wud never say this was a trivial thing cus she wud feel it on herself before she say it was trivial.
You are right here I am male , I reiterate my sayings above , it is trival although feeling myself rude , yes y ?
My brother elder than me was very desperate for kids , for his wife get pregnant soon and they have kids soon, but God wills were different to their desire , they were in this condition for same perid as yours about 5 years.
I have seen my Bhabi and Brother how they were feeling those days.
After that long and with a strong desire I would deem every thing trival Plus , I would say to you "You MIL behaved very rude to you , she should have celebrated it , that see we have two joys together , for the new Bahu the most awaited new baby"
But I would not say it , because I think I would be "Zukhmo pur namak pashee" , instead I should recall you the BIG Blessing of getting pregnant.
@Aisha jee , you are right and you can better understand a female concern than me for you being female , but as i said it would be "Zukhmo pur namak pashee".