Re: Pregnancy after miscarriage
I have a friend who had a baby then lost 5 babies all very late on between 7-8.5 months and has to give birth to all of them. Which is so hard after losing a baby. She then went on to have another healthy baby. The gap between her 2 kids is 14 years.
My husband was very supportive after both my losses, even though I was going practically crazy, but I felt he never understood properly and used to spend all day crying as I was an emotional wreck but he just kept on saying Allah ki marzi thi. I used sit and dwell over what i should have and should have not done, done, or what might have caused it for example I thought maybe I has lifted something heavy or eaten something garam. But Alhumdulillah got over that time. In my later pregnancies I ate anything n everything, n even lifted my older kids so this things r all just in the head, these what ifs…
Inshallah you will be fine. Try n stay positive n happy, try not to stress as this can’t be good for the baby. Keep yourself busy and surrounded by friends and family which will help distract you and remember Allah n do dua. I feel that once you get to the 12 week stage n have your first scan then these should put your mind at ease as its the first trimester which is the most critical. Then when the baby starts moving it also gives peace of mind.
But for now just take each day as it comes and don’t dwell on the past. Try n enjoy your pregnancy as it is such a wonderful feeling.