PREDILICTION OF INDIANS TO PROSTITUTIONS

Religion’s Role in Indian Prostitution

In addition to the ways that poverty directs hundreds of thousands of
Indian women to prostitution, there are also various religious forces at
play. These religious aspects of the commercial sex trade frequently
overlap with the basic survival needs created by poverty and its
constraints; but it is in this dimension that Indian prostitution is
distinctly different from prostitution in the West. Indian women, whose
poverty seems to leave them no alternative other than to sell their
bodies, understand, in accordance with their Hindu faith, that their
fate has been determined by forces greater than themselves. In response,
the women commit themselves to prostitution as a religious appeasement
of those forces.

The most traditional, systemic role religion plays in prostitution is
through the Devdasi system.24 Candidates for the system are usually
poor, illiterate rural citizens. In the temple, they take a vow of
prostitution and may initially engage in sexual relations with a
“priest” in religious practices. They receive a tattoo on their
foreheads, above the red bindi. The red bindi usually denotes marriage
in Indian culture, but in combination with the tattoo, it symbolizes one
who is sexually committed to religion. In addition, the prostitutes put
on a wooden
necklace as a symbol of their commitment. The necklace is never to be
removed. The compounded symbols are intended to permanently mark one as
a devdasi regardless of her dress, location, or demeanor. The
goddess to whom these prostitutes are committed is called Yellaamma.

In an annual fair held during a designated month, the initiation of
candidates is formally recognized. Men come to the fair to observe who
is being initiated. Subsequent to their observation, many men choose a
devdasi. Even married men come to take a woman; it is, after all, an
element of religious practice.

Usually, the man lives with the devdasi for a short period of time. When
the man selects another devdasi or feels that his current religious mate
is no longer suitable, he simply leaves her without responsibility or
obligation. Because of his use, the woman is now considered less
attractive and is subsequently chosen by less influential, less
attractive, or even less respectable men. This cyclical dependency
continues indefinitely, for while her patrons have no commitment to her,
she is committed to being a sexual object. At 23 or 24 years of age, a
devdasi is usually the mother of 6-7 children, each the result of a
relationship
with a different man. She is a relatively unattractive prospect and the
community is not pleased with the presence of a large, unsupported
family. She may be able to take up residence in a brothel in order to
provide some level of self-support. Because she belongs to the goddess
Yellaamma, her fatherless offspring do so as well. While there is a
ceremonial religious event in which she dedicates her children into
prostitution in service to the goddess, it is already a culturally
implicit fact. The children of a devdasi have to continue as part of the
devdasi system. There are no personal options.

Prostitution in India is largely a Hindu industry. When asked who
patronized the prostitutes, “Pandit,” a young man interviewed by the IJM
who works as an agent or promoter of prostitutes, made it very
clear that Muslims and Christians were not customers. Specifically in
reference to Muslims he said, “They may have three or four wives, but
they won’t buy drugs from me or come near a prostitute.” It is not
uncommon, however, for tourists, including Americans, to patronize
thewomen.

The Hindu worldview is one that encourages tolerance. Those whose
economic situation seems to leave them no alternative except
prostitution learn to tolerate their plight. The hope of reincarnation
discourages them from challenging their circumstances. They hold that by
doing the best that they can within their assigned station in life, they
will be rewarded with higher social status in the next life. If, on the
other hand, they rebel, they will destine themselves to worse
circumstances the next time around.
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looks like nobody gives a shit...didn't work sanam...

no one has to give a shit, but it is an interesting read.

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looks like nobody gives a shit...didn't work sanam...
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looks like nobody gives a shit...didn't work sanam...
Thats why there are ppl. who run International Justice Mission,b/c you hindus "GIVES A SHIT "

WHO had selected Chennai for its study and Hariharan, along with his
colleagues, much to their surprise, identified 3,000 sex workers in
Chennai. But after the study, they discovered that there were at least
7,000 sex workers in the city even though they could identify only
3,000. It was a revelation to find so many women in a city where there
was no red light area.

They classified the CSWs (Commercial Sex workers) into three groups.

  1. Street workers.
  2. Girls who stayed in brothels, and 3.Those who lived with their families.

Those who lived with their families constituted the largest number of
CSWs. These women operated either with or without the knowledge of their
family members. It was found that 1,800 of the 3,000 sex workers in the
study had families. After mapping them, they found that these women were
not concentrated in any one area but were spread out all over the city.
Their research found that 64 per cent of the women were from Andhra
Pradesh, 17 per cent from Tamil Nadu, nine per cent from Karnataka and
Kerala, and the rest from the other parts of India.

They also categorised those who operated brothels into two types: The
'clandestine' ones and the declared ones. The clandestine operators give
money to people, from policemen to thugs to commercially run their
brothels. But the declared brothels operated more courageously and
openly.

Many young girls reach the brothels after they are sold in the 'girl
bazaar' like commodities. The price for a good-looking girl is Rs.
3,000. Anybody who is fair is good looking, according to brothel owners.
They are taken on a month's contract and in their calendar, a month has
37 days. Fifty per cent of the money is paid to the girl's family when
she joins the brothel; the rest is given after the 37th day. The brothel
owner provides her with breakfast and lunch. As she goes out with
clients at night, dinner is taken care of by the clients.

Normally, the sex worker gets Rs 20 to Rs 30 from a client. She gets an
average of six to seven clients during the day and three to four clients
at night in Chennai. The brothel owners pay the local policemen and
thugs regularly so that they are not harassed much. The thugs may demand
Rs 3,000 to Rs 4,000 on a Saturday and less on weekdays. In return,
these thugs help the brothel owners when a client becomes troublesome.

It is found that in this city alone, around 4,000 men visit the 3,000
sex workers daily. If the women are in their twenties, they get around
40 to 50 clients a month. By the time they reach 30, the number of
clients recedes. Women above 40 generally do not get clients at all. It
is then that they start working as 'suppliers' of young girls to the
clients that they know and in return, they get a small commission.

When Hariharan discovered that commercial sex workers are treated as
untouchables by society, he decided to start an NGO which he named the
Indian Community Welfare Organisation to help them lead a decent life.
The ICWO's first target was the children of the sex workers. ICWO
volunteers managed to convince the women to agree to send their children
to boarding schools. The aim was to keep the children away from sexual
commerce. The only asset of these emotionally insecure women is their
children, and 61 per cent of them have children.

Hariharan informed us that five years ago, eight out of ten sex workers
wanted their daughters too to be in the trade. Not anymore. Now, not
even one per cent of these women say they want their daughters to be in
the business. The reason for the change in their attitude is the
intervention of NGOs like ICWO who focus mainly on the children. "Our
aim is to prevent the children of sex workers from entering the
profession. So, we help them put their children into boarding schools.
We also encourage these women to save money for their children's
education. Earlier, they used to spend all their money on food and
liquor, but now with some money in the bank, they feel a little secure,"
says Hariharan.

He remembers a four year old whom he saw near the central station,
Chennai. The little girl used to tell people, "My mother has gone for
night duty. She has gone to meet a client for Rs 400." She didn't know
what a client was or what was meant by 'night duty' but it was true that
she had lost her innocence at such a tender age. When ICWO tried to
persuade the mother to send her little girl to a boarding school, she
refused as she had found that policemen were sympathetic to her because
of her daughter. Her daughter was her shield from being harassed. The
volunteers had to use all their persuasive powers to convince her to
send the child to a boarding school.

Most sex workers try not to let their children know that they are in a
profession called 'prostitution'. Some of them even manage to marry off
their daughters but when it comes to their sons, they are at a loss. The
boys, when they learn of and understand the nature of the 'job' their
mother is doing, take full advantage of the situation. They demand
money, drink, they smoke and take to drugs.

"In the ten years that I have worked in this field, I have not found a
single woman who willingly practices prostitution. Poverty drives them
to this profession," says Hariharan. Other factors that drive women to
prostitution are false promises -- a chance to act in movies, betrayal
by lovers and husbands, etc. Sexually dissatisfied women who marry
elderly men also enter this profession for pleasure, but they constitute
only a small section. The reasons that drive them to prostitution may
vary, but after a few years, most of them get addicted to rich food,
alcohol, tobacco and maybe even sex. After being in prostitution for a
few years, they find it difficult to leave it.

In the last ten years, there has been a dramatic change in the
behavioural pattern of sex workers and their awareness level, Hariharan
said. When he first started working with them, not many knew about
contraceptives and they never insisted on using them. From his
experience with an NGO, he has found that only 17 per cent of the women
used condoms in 1993 but now 87 per cent of them insist their clients
use it.

"We identify the CSWs and win their confidence before educating them on
the dangers that they face if they are not cautious. It is not easy to
win their confidence. Later, we use them as peer workers to spread the
message among CSWs. Our major focus is on the prevention of AIDS and not
on giving alternate employment to these women," Hariharan explained.

As the government popularised condoms as a means of family planning and
not merely to prevent sexually transmitted diseases, AIDS etc, NGOs find
it very difficult to convince women to use condoms for safe sex.