Predicting threshold of filing for divorce in a woman

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Re: Predicting threshold of filing for divorce in a woman

@Reha

So then why is it frowned upon if a man does dishes in traditional families if doing house work is a great thing?

The issue here is going to be…she will work but that will not be enough of a contribution. He will work but that will be enough. She will resent him because she will stretch herself thin and he will resent her because he will tire of hearing her complain. Her work will never stop and his will as soon as it hits 5 o’clock. You want to be **happily **married in America? You have to work for it.

There is no love here yet…this is an arranged marriage.

And non-Muslim **healthy **marriages are usually based on appreciation and partnership.

I’m not talking about exploiting anyone. I’m just saying that different people have different lifestyles and it is their right. In a formal rishta process both sides do declare their preferences. Sometimes there is a match, sometimes there isn’t. Those who frown upon something, that is their right, and they are also entitled to have their views. For example, some people may think goalkeeper is lesser than striker in a team, they can hold that view. I think both play their own roles as decided at the time of team selection and can step in for one another as need arises. Everyone can live their life the way they deem fit as long as the involved parties have agreed to it in advance. I’m not exactly some social justice warrior and not interested in debates that have been going on since forever and will continue forever.