Predicting threshold of filing for divorce in a woman

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Re: Predicting threshold of filing for divorce in a woman

@decentGuy

No body becomes a “maasi” or “naukar” by doing their own home’s work. People have their own lifestyles and ways of contribution. Different people show their love differently and want to be loved differently. As long as they are upfront about it before marriage, it’s fine by me. There are lots of non-Muslim married couples in US that are also quite traditional.

So then why is it frowned upon if a man does dishes in traditional families if doing house work is a great thing?

The issue here is going to be…she will work but that will not be enough of a contribution. He will work but that will be enough. She will resent him because she will stretch herself thin and he will resent her because he will tire of hearing her complain. Her work will never stop and his will as soon as it hits 5 o’clock. You want to be **happily **married in America? You have to work for it.

There is no love here yet…this is an arranged marriage.

And non-Muslim **healthy **marriages are usually based on appreciation and partnership.