Predicting threshold of filing for divorce in a woman

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Re: Predicting threshold of filing for divorce in a woman

@decentGuy

I would disagree a bit there. Most people may say so, but actual beliefs about divorce are quite diverse.

Getting a divorce is wayyyyy easier said than done. It takes a buildup of many issues for one to take such a bold step.

@decentGuy

If for example, he asks her verbally and in confusion of some sort she makes some more off the cuff remarks which puts this guy off even more, it will not serve its purpose. Do you think putting written questions to her and requesting written answers from her would be better so there are no off the cuff remarks? And then base his final decision on those replies.

Also the thing is, that the guy’s family and the girl’s family like each other on so many levels and want to give this rishta every chance of being successful if that’s best for both. It’s so hard to find right person these days, we just don’t want to lose them due to some misunderstanding.

I think the guy and girl need to talk one on one. He needs to alleviate her fears and she needs to realize he’s not about to make her into a maasi.