Re: Predicting threshold of filing for divorce in a woman
Beautifully put.
But then why she just won’t say, ‘no’ and stop wasting everyone’s time? AFAIK, there is no pressure on her regarding this particular rishta. Her parents really like this guy and see a connection with him but have left the choice completely in her hands. Her parents perhaps need to tell her that all those sweet talking fake guys she may have heard about don’t stick around for long.
I would disagree a bit there. Most people may say so, but actual beliefs about divorce are quite diverse.
Of course he cares about the things you mentioned. He wants a wife not a roommate. All the basic things seemed fine in the initial introduction, only then things moved a bit forward but her certain statements have become a bummer. Not in and of itself but the signals it sent. One of his major requirements is, flexibility. Since he’s building his life in a new country, he cannot be sure of things to come in next 20-30 months, let alone 20-30 years. Still things are on going and I don’t want to post any information that could potentially make the people involved personally identifiable. I just hope whatever is best for both, happens.
You are right in that but as I said no one involved wants to upset her or her family and want to keep things pleasant.