Predicting threshold of filing for divorce in a woman

[Bobby1]

Re: Predicting threshold of filing for divorce in a woman

@IsaidwhatIsaid

I don’t think her boundaries and desires are “childish talk” (apart from the honeymoon stuff). She has the right to want to have a connection with parents and not be controlled by in laws. This is just a wake up call for that dude that he should find someone else. Clearly he has an issue with her statements, and she should not be coerced into becoming the “”“”“ideal wife”“”" that the guy wants for the sake of a rishta. In fact, like someone else posted, that might be a hint that she doesn’t want to get married.

Sometimes there can be lots of delusions and many people severely miscalculate their value, I came across some young girls who had just moved from Dubai and from their standards and the way girls are pursued there they had fairy tale expectations. They wanted the prince charming who would be handsome, wealthy, wouldn’t expect them to cook and clean or have a job. Same goes for guys, I had seen these guys who were fairly weak males, short, rolled shoulders, lack of grooming etc and were acting like they are Gods gift to women. This is why interaction is important so the guys and gals can be realistic in their expectations. The Divorce rate amongst Muslims in America might be approaching 40 percent.

BTW I had told my wife that these girls will have a hard time finding matches and they are now approaching 40 and single. Although if you are financially and emotionally independent, which they are not then nothing wrong in being single.