hi!
I just recently conceived , unfortunately I already had two mis -carriages in the past.can somebody please advice me what precautions to take and also if any body knows any dua or surah to read for safe pregnancy
Please help!!
Re: precautions for pregnancy
salaamualikum, congratualtions! I pray Allah makes it easy for you and blesses you with a healthy happy pious child.
make a habit of reciting surah yaseen everyday, it is also recommended to recite surah ambiya and surah Maryam and also ayat-ul-kursi.
my friend sent me the following:
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[FONT=Times New Roman]CERTAIN BEAUTIFUL NAMES OF ALLAH TO BE READ BEFORE AND DURING PREGNANCY
Yaa waahidul ahad
The ONE Un-Equalled
Anyone desiring good and pious children should inscribe this ism on paper,
or cloth and keep it with him at all times.
****Yaa awwalu
The First.
Anyone desirous of male children should say this ism 40 times daily for 40
days. His needs will soon be fulfilled.(Insha-Allah) ****
Yaa mubdi-u
The Originator
Anyone who, while placing his hand on the stomach of his pregnant wife,
repeats this ism 99 times at the time of sehri, neither will she have a
miscarriage nor will she give birth prematurely, Insha-Allah)
Yaa barru
The Good.
anyone who reads this ism 7 times and blows on his child soon after birth,
Allah will grant the child protection from calamities until puberty.
(Insha-Allah)
****Yaa baari-u
One Who Gives Life.
If a barren woman fasts for 7days and each day, after making Iftaar with
water, reads this ism 21 times Allah will grant her male children.
(Insha-Allah)
Yaa musawwiru
Fashioner of Shapes.
If a barren woman fasts and each day, after making Iftaar with water read
this ism 21 times Allah will grant her male children. (Insha-Allah
Yaa naafi-u
One Who Confers Benefits.
If this ism is said prior to having intercourse, Allah will grant him good
and pious children. (Insha-Allah)
Re: precautions for pregnancy
hi!
Thanks so much devoted2Allah, I wasnt sure of getting any reply , but to my surprise you have given me more than enough information about duas and surah.I appreciate , may Allah fullfil and grant all ur wishes . Keep me in ur prayers.
Thanks a lot :)
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Asalam-o-alaikum !
devoted2Allah , links that u have mentioned in the reply are not clear and when i clicked over them doesnt work. If u can please send me the links again that would be great.
Thanks
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i dont like the fact these duas have to do with getting male children!!! this kind of thinking shoudl go back to the pind where it came from...what's wrong with female children???
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congratulation Afra for this good news ,May Allah bless u witha healthy and pious child,Afra i too heard about Surahe Maryam and Surah e Yaseen during pregenency and offer salah five times and then pray to God .
There are so many sites on whick u can get knowledge about pregenency.Here is one
http://parenting.ivillage.com/pregnancy/pmiscarriage/topics/0,4rrw,00.html
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thanks Aish , yes I have also heard about surah maryam.
Surah teen (daily 11 times through out pregnancy), surah Mulk(for 40 days ,can be read any time) and surah kuhf(for 40 days after fajr) and Surah Bakrah (for first 3 months) are good to read .In these couple of days i have gathered this relevant information from family and friends.
May Allah bless us with pious and healthy children (Amin)
keep me in your prayers and thanks again!!:)
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Afra talk to your doctor about precautions....they are the best to give advice on this stuff. Inshallah everything will be fine.
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The duas for getting male children are nonsense, and there is nothing in the Quran or in Islam at all to support them.
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i want to have a beautiful and healthy baby is there any dua to have a normal healthy baby
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try visiting the site
duas.org
they have good duas concerning childbirth, as well as upbringing of children
And Devoted to Allah...really good duas...Thanks
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I have heard that during pregnancy if you recite surah yousaf, then your child will be very gorgeous. inshallah
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did u know the reason of yr past micarriages ?? if yes than ask advice from yr doctor rearding the precautions and care u need this time , to have a healthy baby yr main focus should be on ................... healthy routine with light exercise ( if u're allowed) , healthy wholesome diet ( try drinking lot of water and milk , also fibre alongwith meats ) , good sleep and activities to relax yr mind & body and ofcourse recite dua's as well ............................. avoid "too much" of everything like fatty food , salt , sugar , exercise , stress and ignorance towards yrself.
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I was also gonna say go by your doc's advice
if they know why you have miscarried in the past.
Other than that do follow with the duas mentioned above
to have a healthy child.
May ALLAH bless you and the baby. Ameen.
Re: precautions for pregnancy
I would say give it a year or so before you try for anothe child - as your body needs time to recover - also take some vitamin supplements - i know Pregnacare is an excellent one to take which you take when trying to conceive, during pregnancy and also after.
Good luck!
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I share your pain ive been there. But dont worry, inshalah things will work out for you. Talk to your gynae about precautions and extra care and remember, that what is not meant to be will not so dont grieve too much- things will change for the better. Try to stay happy it will help your body recharge its self and yes like Mysterious woman said, wait for a year to help the body and your mind recover before you try again.
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I totally agree with u. Asian ppl r obsessed with having boys hence y theres lots of duas to have a son but none for a daughter. How sad! 
Re: precautions for pregnancy
salaam,z like everyone else said, eat healthy, including drinking lots of water/milk. Also lots of fruits/veggies. Eat a balanced diet of carbs/protein..take vitamin supplements..folic acid is essential in the beginning, talk to your doctor about calcium supplements if needed, iron...etc. Also if you do nothing else, make sure to keep a habit of walking..and check with doctor if you can do moderate exercise.
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Do you know the reason of your previous miscarriages..(if i can ask) how many months were you preg each time?
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Yes