Its a known thing that brides go crazy before the wedding with all the pre-wedding emotions. The stress of shifting home, leaving parents, the main dress, other million dresses, jewellery, makeup, blah blah blah blah blah ends up making every other bride half crazy. Most end up being bridezillas & hurting their families, friends etc. with their hot tempers.
So for most of you, who had major mood swings, nerve attacking situations and long periods of agitated moods how long were they? Did they end as soon as the wedding ended or you ended up losing your temper on your husbands later as well?
lolz since my mum in law created a lot of problems she tried every possible thing 2 spoil my wedding i controlled myself but finally on wedding night it was my huby who had 2 listen everything :)
haye! Don’t even get me started on this topic. I created a big hassle that I want a small chunnu munnu nikkah but no the entire immediate family has to be there and that is a 100 people .. challo on a good side, I got more duas with all the people there
Its a known thing that brides go crazy before the wedding with all the pre-wedding emotions. The stress of shifting home, leaving parents, the main dress, other million dresses, jewellery, makeup, blah blah blah blah blah ends up making every other bride half crazy. Most end up being bridezillas & hurting their families, friends etc. with their hot tempers.
So for most of you, who had major mood swings, nerve attacking situations and long periods of agitated moods how long were they? Did they end as soon as the wedding ended or you ended up losing your temper on your husbands later as well?
now i know where women get those life lasting mood swings :)
For men its mostly that period of non-realization, period of calm before storm only to be broken by 'Qabool hai?' sound of Qazi sahab and all of of a sudden we wake up thinking "holy crap...what m i doing" ---- but its too late for any such thought - RIP ego
For men its mostly that period of non-realization, period of calm before storm only to be broken by 'Qabool hai?' sound of Qazi sahab and all of of a sudden we wake up thinking "holy crap...what m i doing" ---- but its too late for any such thought - RIP ego
and you are badly injured by the storm after QABOOL HAI :@:
My Wedding would be in Jan and i have totally gone mad..i shout/scream,im rude to the max,i cry (even though i cant cry like litrelly cant) cant sleep whole night and after fajr just lay down with my mom and sleep until its evening lol i dont know i feel sooo down that my lifes gona end after me getting married..im soo miserable and just wana escape from this..I CANT LEAVE MY FAMILY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! for one guy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
just an advice. The things that bother us the most during the pre-wedding time is with the preps, decor, venue, clothes etc. Don't take everything in your hands. Let others do work. Honestly when you'd get married and you'd be happy, these things won't matter !
Spend this time enjoying yourself with the family and friends. It's all worth it. And DD yes all of this stops after shadi lol...you don't take it out on your hubby. But that would be only if you just let go of prep, let your parents have their way in some things and the rest yourself. Everything would go well IA :)
My Wedding would be in Jan and i have totally gone mad..i shout/scream,im rude to the max,i cry (even though i cant cry like litrelly cant) cant sleep whole night and after fajr just lay down with my mom and sleep until its evening lol i dont know i feel sooo down that my lifes gona end after me getting married..im soo miserable and just wana escape from this..I CANT LEAVE MY FAMILY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! for one guy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
just an advice. The things that bother us the most during the pre-wedding time is with the preps, decor, venue, clothes etc. Don't take everything in your hands. Let others do work. Honestly when you'd get married and you'd be happy, these things won't matter !
Spend this time enjoying yourself with the family and friends. It's all worth it. And DD yes all of this stops after shadi lol...you don't take it out on your hubby. But that would be only if you just let go of prep, let your parents have their way in some things and the rest yourself. Everything would go well IA :)
I will agree with both of you. majority of girls are sensitive now they weep, cry, and sobbing.
.. challo on a good side, I got more duas with all the people there 