Pre-School VS Montessori

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I know of so many examples like that too...I agree with the importance and the role of a good school,and good teachers providing a well structured education in a well balanced atmosphere...but it also depends on the aptitude of the student and how hard you work with the child especially in the early years...

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Here are my views, personal opinions:
1. Monetssori: Very expensive, can't justify spending so much money when I compare Montessori-going kids with non-Montessori going kids. Haven't seen any significant difference so far.
2. Public: As long as you live in a good district with good ratings, your kid will learn well, be competitive, be challenged. The key here is "good ratings and Good teachers." SO you have to do your homework well.
3. Islamic: If your kid has the opportunity to attend an after-school Islamic program, I'd prefer that.
4. Home Schooling: Hats off to parents who do that, but I'd like my kids to be working with other kids as well. They need to fall and learn to get up and move on.

Again, these are just my personal experiences and observations.

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A big difference b/w public Montessori and private Montessori is the added curriculum in public Montessori. In public Montessori, the school is required to follow certain district initiatives because they are being funded by the district.

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Lusi...Since you have worked in a public montesorri,can you say how it differs from what is offered in a private one..?

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oh I think we posted at the same time .Thanks for answering my query Lusi...:)

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It is not about a degree, it is about getting an education that help one become a responsible citizen. I think this is what we are lacking, there is too much emphasis on getting a degree/good job, not much being a responsible citizen.

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ahaaN...but, at least, i haven't seen any person who is highly educated and holds a great job is NOT a responsible person? what do you mean by 'responsible citizen'? YES. it is about Degrees/good jobs in this competitive world...a person is considered a success if he has a High Degree and a good paying job...of course you have to be a good citizen and education does help you become that.

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interesting Lusi. thanks!

Niksik..a friend of mine homeschools her kids, and they are also doing hifz as well (both son and daughter who are in their tweens). She has another young daughter and son as well.

I dont know how she does it, but she's awesome! she also networks with other homeschooling families and they work together and have science fairs/trips, etc.

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Benazir Bhutto! Held a degree from Harvard, gave lectures around the world, but quite dishonest citizen and leader. My apologies to all Bhutto fans, didn't really mean to politicize this thread.

But in general just look at Pakistan and India, people with degrees from prestigious schools, good jobs, great achievements, but they have no citizenship. They are looting the country, they make every attempt to use their sources in everything and anything possible.

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You know I think I read a bit about Montessori when I was younger, but now raising my daughter it like actually "clicks!" It makes sense with the way she learns, the way she gets absorbed in certain skills. When I am with her I am very relaxed in terms of "teaching" her anything. We chat and when she asks about things I tell her and if she shows further interest, I let her play and test out whatever she is intrigued by. It seems like montessoris would cultivate that kind of learning process. Makes a lot of sense.

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Having a good job and matching salary does not automatically make you a successful person.

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i'm really skeptical on how the differences between a montessori system and a normal pre-school will make the kid an honest vs. dishonest person when grown up. a lot of this is people massaging their own ego over mera bacha sabse acha nonsense.

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^^ I was just replying KKF that just a degree won't do any good but teaching and practing core values of citizenship will make difference, it can be in a Montessori program or non Montessori but they should be taught and practiced from an early age. Yes both school and parents should be involved in the process.

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i didnt mean that towards you lusi, just saying in general how much people seem to obsess over a choice of systems for such young kids with words like responsible citizens.. they'll do just fine under any of these systems that balances their curiosity and play in a fun and non-stressful environment. and a choice between them will not turn your potential einstein into a benazir bhutto.

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^ I agree. That is really based upon the kind of home we create. It's not fair to blame the schools for not teaching values and appropriate behavior. That is the parents' job. The schools can reinforce that as much or as little as they like.

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I don't have to look far to find an example of someone that went to not-so-great public schools and ended up with a GPA to be proud of. Heck, I even went to school in Brampton! LOL. (sorry....that had to be said) Some could even argue that my GPA was good because the competition was non-existent.......I know the truth but it could definitely be argued.

My family moved around so much during my elementary years that I went to three different schools in grade 3 alone!
This doesn't mean that things have remained the same in the public school system. Things have changed. And even in the best boroughs there are certain things that I want my child to remain safe from.

@queer......I don't know how much it is about mera bacha sabse acha since I don't quantify her success on her performance. Perhaps it is about feeling assured that I am doing the best that I can for her; providing the best that money can buy and ensuring that she is safe from the ills of society as best as possible.

To add to Lusi' comment.......core values are instilled at a very young age.....and for those that are trying to have the values that they practice/teach at home reinforced, Montessori does that....public school these days does not focus on it.

I have a friend that is home-schooling her kids and I am amazed at her success......unfortunately despite getting involved with other home-schooling families, her children are not as socially adapted as those that have constant interaction.

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To add to Muzna's post, take a look at your different regions and the subjects your kids are being taught. I know in Ontario, they made some changes that are so extreme where my friends actually pull their kids out of school for a set number of days during which certain topics are being taught (to six year old children). They don't want their kids being exposed at such an early age by their own teachers.

The public school system may be fantastic in your area, in which case, you probably don't need to even consider the option of private school. That does not apply everywhere though.

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Muzna, I think it depends on the kid's home environment and personal ablilities as well.

I have an example very close to home. My good friend's kid goes to a very renowned Montessori here since pre-school. My daughter, the same age, went to a private preschool. Her son is continuing to kindergarten in the same school while my daughter will join our district's public school which has great ratings. Now, my older kid has been to the same public school and I have to say that they have worked so closely with me as a parent that I couldn't imagine sending her anywhere else so I'm very excited that my choti will be going into the same environment. The classrooms are well equipped with cutting edge resources, a great library, extra tutoring on site for kids that may need extra help etc etc. I believe all good public schools have the facilities you'd want and as far as the core values are concerned, looking at the kid I mentioned above, I don't see him advanced in any way as compared to my daughter... in fact, she's better at sharing and dealing with other kids at a social level while that kid is always very needy for personal attention. In fact, just the other day, my friend's husband commented that they feel they've wasted so much money on the Montessori because they cannot see any difference between their kid and another kid who is a product of a good school. I guess everyone's experience is different. In the end, all parents want a well rounded happy child who, like Lusi said, is a good citizen.

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^ What if we don't think about it as a comparison between him and your daughter.

The question is more about where HE thrives more -- public preschool or private montessori environment. Maybe it didn't make a difference. But maybe it did for him.

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^ I'm sure that there are several examples like this.
I have never suggested that schooling alone can be the source of education for a child.