Pre-School VS Montessori

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I don't get your last point about special ed.

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traditional charter schools put more pressure and have high expectations than montessori and yes montessori was intially meant for special need kids and they allow every kid to work according to his potential but now all sorts of kids attend it. it gives more freedom of choice to kids and less stressful than TLC's with homework everyday.

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Lusi might have to confirm this but I'm pretty sure maria montessori's philosophy was never intended just for special Ed children. It is geared towards any child and transforming the way they were taught. The one on one interaction and independence allows them to learn at their own pace, taking into account each childs strengths and weaknesses.

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My daughter is now headed for grade 3 (the final year of lower elementary education in the Montessori system of learning). She has been in the Montessori program since she was 3 years old. Prior to this experience I knew nothing about the Montessori method and was pretty much of the mind that this is a program of learning for exceptional children or for parents that want their kids to get ahead. I had no idea that this was a very simple misconception.

The more I researched and experienced the more I have come to appreciate Montessori schooling. And no, I am not inclined to "grow a braniac". I simply want to make the most of my child's formative years. Enough studies have confirmed that a child is able to absorb a great deal before the age of 5-6 years......I merely wanted to give her the opportunity to do this. Was I floored when she was working with bi-nomials and tri-nomials at the age of 4? You bet I was! Did I think it was too much pressure? Not at all. She was not judged on her ability to perrform......but she had been exposed. That's all I asked for.

I have nothing but good to say about the method and the schools that I have chosen.
Expensive? Absolutely.
Worth it? Absolutely.

It's not just about the "smarts" or the "academic" side of things.....the Montessori method works on developing a wholesome, well-rounded personality. It teaches the individual so many values that are completely ignored in the public school system.

The mixed classroom (e.g. a "lower elementary class" contains students from grade 1, 2 and 3) teaches the child to live in a "community" where there are younger and elder members to help along and learn from. The compassion that you see in this community is non-existent in non-Montessori programs......at least those that I have experienced. This also allows each student to work at their own pace without feeling left behind or held back by the progress of the rest of the students.

The small class size (i.e. 12-15 students maximum) is a huge benefit that provides each student with one-on-one instruction time and attention from the instructor.

The hands-on approach to learning is so much more practical than having your child sit at a desk and stare at a blackboard.

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^ That's exactly my impression, Muzna.

I don't want to sound like a biased, overly-obsessed parent. It's just that I can tell that my daughter is constantly seeking knowledge. She is very verbal and communicates constantly. She is active and very curious. When presented with something new (whether it is a new person, new taste, new item, etc), she constantly asks its name until she figures out how to say it. She wants to learn. So why should I discourage that? I am just following her cues and seeking to give her the resources and support she needs.

It will mean that I will need to go back to work, but I'm happy to do it. Especially because I think it will mean so much for her.

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extremely well explained, muzna!

what i also love about montessori is how completely passionate montessori teachers are about it. they're so dedicated to the entire philosophy- i've seen it with my mom, my cousin, other montessori teachers i know, and as a parent of a future montessori child iA, i appreciate that! so much of school is how good your teachers are- i'll happily pay for that if i have to.

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You are spot on SGC.....the teachers are very passionate about their work......to me the difference is night and day or a career and a calling. I am also happy to pay for that kind of devotion to a child's future.

Here are a couple of simple examples:

  • In addition to providing catered lunches, Noor's school has "warm up" facilities for lunches brought from home. The process of "warming" is shared by all the classes whereby the children take 10 minutes before lunch time and collect all the containers requiring heating from each classroom. They take the lunches down to the kitchen and while some of them set about warming the individual foods, the others set up the tables with cloths and even floral centerpieces. To my knowledge this does not happen in public schools.

While it may seem insignificant, I believe that this simple process of eating in a "proper" environment teaches the kids manners and tameez as well as to respect and treat themselves well.

The process of collecting and warming the lunches teaches them to care for each other as well as hard skills like how long to warm different food items.

  • When the child arrives and leaves school, he/she is required to approach each supervising teacher, make eye-contact and politely greet them with a handshake. I have yet to see this sort of discipline in any public school system.

  • On a regular basis the classroom community is required to recognize "virtues" (e.g. patience, compassion, etc.) exhibited by their colleagues. These children are nominated to be recognized by the school in general assembly once every few months. This process teaches them to encourage each other and recognize the good in society.

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this.

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I guess I don't see montessori/preschool programs as stressful or burdening to a kid. But it depends on the kid.

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So there is a difference between Montessori education and a regular public school.For those who sent their kids to montessori,did you want a public montessori or private/independent one?...what is the difference between the two...??
I know where I live there are a few independent montessori schools and one is a public montessori magnet school...

And also did you parents move your kids from montessori to a private school or a public school...??

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Nothing is wrong aahmed.....except maybe depriving children of an education, which you are not proposing.
Every parenting style is unique and with justification, I'm sure.

To answer your question about what you need to do to make this happen........have you considered home schooling?

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I am not sure what the difference is between public montessori and private montessori.......we only have private ones here. I would assume that at the very least the calibre and quality might suffer in the public system as it would be funded by the government.

I am hoping not to have to move her from the private montessori to public education until high school iA.

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^ I would keep her inn private school system in high school. It's pretty critical for college prep, if the option is there. (I'm in the US; maybe it's different in Canada)

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^ thanks for the recommendation......we'll see how she's doing then.
my nephews and nieces have been through private primary and public secondary education and they've done okay.
circumstances at the time will determine I guess.......the question will be funding......it might be more important to save it for post secondary studies rather than splurge on secondary.

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montessori vs. public vs. islamic vs home-schooling.

wow..there's a lot of thought for this.

would you parents rate these 4, and your reasoning for doing so? I'm curious.

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**i believe the kid must be treated as a kid and must be allowed to enjoy his childhood...he/she must not be fast-tracked.

as a parent we must create a maaHaul [environment] where the kid is taught the value of education and any kid who has any potential will achieve whatever is within his/her means.

i've seen people go to a village Govt school and then went on to become professors. it's all dependant on the environment and support you provide to ur kid and the potential of the kids.

i know a person who went to an unknown university and now he teaches at Harvard...so, if you got a degree, it doesn't matter too much where you got ur degree from. it all depends on your grades and quality of ur work.**

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It’s funny how all dads think alike.

Here we have aahmed, queer, and ask TLK…he’ll say the same thing. It’s we mommies who start worrying about every little detail from the time the child is conceived :hehe:!

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I was reading an article today in the Star about these kids with 100 percent averages...and they all went to public secondary schools. Some of them went to not-so-great (u can even say ghetto) schools and kicked butt! wow! I have friends that I met in university that came from really ghetto high schools, but are now are all doctors. =)

I think that even with a great school (whatever choice it may be), its the at-home environment that also makes a difference..dont u think?

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I know..and I thought buying a car seat was confusing...:(
I wont be able to rate them properly...I haven't yet looked into the Islamic school here...and I have no idea about the differences between a public and private montessori...I am thinking of maybe going and visiting the few places I am interested in...

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Thank you Muzna for a very detailed response.

The Montessori philosophy has 3 main points: care of self, care of environment, and care of others. This philosophy is embedded in the curriculum. A good example will be when children take a work out, they are taught to keep their work in their space, take care of the material, and clean up.
The growth of the child is not measured in a specific learning area but as the whole child.

Another thing Montessori said there is a sensitive period for everything, it is the time when child secures a specific skill through repetition. It is the time when child is extremely absorbed in that skill, it can be anything like tying a shoe lace, coloring, learning sounds, sorting objects, etc. The curriculum also helps children develop an uninterrupted work cycle. That means a child will develop a long concentration span, will move on to another activity after finishing the previous one. The teachers observe child and give them lesson throughout the curriculum as needed. I had an ELL student who in beginning of the year with a material used for sorting and building patterns for almost 2 months. Everyday, the first thing she get was those cubes and prisms.

The curriculum is also build in to help children learn grace and courtesy, be passionate and caring to each other. I love when my older children ask me if they can give a lesson to their little friends. Once I had two little boys arguing, i was just watching to see how they will solve their issue. A little girl who was extremely involved in her writing got up, went to them and actually helped the two boys resolve the issue.

I think teaching children problem solving skills and letting them help each other is way more effective then a teaching always initiating the problem solving process.

I was working a public school montessori program, therefore I would get all sorts of child (of course never had any diagnosed with extreme special need) but stuff like speech needs, adhd, i had couple kids with emotional behavior issues, one with mild cerebral palsy. Again all these children came in the class not diagnosed, so I basically had to try various intervention to making their classroom experience exciting for them and keep their spirits high.

It is also fun that eventually you don't need to assign children jobs but they will make it their own duty to make sure the classroom is presentable for the next day, i have children who at clean up time will roll all the rugs without me asking them, fix pencils and color pencils, wash breakfast trays, put the chairs on the table, etc.

I started studying about Montessori when I got my first job as a Montessori teacher, I have to say that I am loving every bit of it. It is a wonderful program. The key is to make sure you start the program at the right time. Children who join the program as 3 or 4 year old have much more advantage over the children who join the program as 5 year old kindergartners. Initially, the older ones who have joined the program as 5year old feel a little bit more challenged when they see their other peers (who have been in that environment for an year or two) know so much more. It is lot of hard work to keep them confident and bring them to that level.