Pre-Meds and the Rishta Game

[MustafaQuraishi]

Re: Pre-Meds and the Rishta Game

@PyariCgudia

My original question is do you think guys are being pressured into becoming doctors because of status and rishta process? That it makes these guys better catches?

I don’t know. Each matrimonial event I go to , the doctor boys are the worst to talk to. They can’t carry a conversation, most are angry and bitter and it shows, and they don’t have much free time to have a life. They have little to no qualify dating experience so they don’t even know how to talk to girls. They have this attitude of “I make a good salary you should be thankful you have the opportunity to talk to me”. Most I talked to don’t even have scientific inquiry or clinical practice interests anymore. They just are worn out and it shows.

But I am coming across a lot of guys who didn’t make it and when I ask them about it they say they weren’t interested in it in the first place. They did premed in college because parents made them and then they realized they can’t get a job with a bachelors in biology.

Yeah no kidding. Why did you do it in the first place? You should have done what actually interests you.

its not for rishta purpose, its because brown people are so obsessed of having their kids to be a doctor. they couldn’t be a doctor in their life so they enforce their life choices on their kids because thats what their parents did to them. They don’t see if their children have potential to be a doctor or not. They just want them to be there so that in family gatherings they can say “oh, mera bacha to doctor hai”