I reck its enjoying good marital relations(!!!), eating lean and healthy food that doesnt require ur wife to spend hours cooking, enjoying a years subscription to the gym for both u and ur wife and making it a routine to go, having long weekend and holidays to exotic destinations that dont include Pakistan, India US or UK where ur intending to have FANTASTIC marital relations, having retail therapy as a monthly therapy, having a hobby or hobbies that allow your inner talents to show- Belly dancing and salsa dont qualify, attending a Communication course that allows u both to vent strategically any months pent up feelings, practise taking care of a pet before you plan for a family- if your bird/ cat /survives- then you consider ur options, speak with one anothers parents under time constraints- 1 hour for each sets of parents each month is suffice, make time visiting in laws/ family- short and productive- and give fore warning, so that wifies can give ammi and mil's a request for diet- no paranthas/ghee/meeta/ puris/ and if ammis have cooked for their betas- politely decline and go for the healthy option- fruit/ and convince ammis its a "new 21st Century man thing", and lastly tell each other how much u love each other and how ur lucky to have each other and demonstrate that by enjoying SUPER DOOOPER marital relations!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Wow, we are talking about pindu's ere. Generally ones that have been married for a few years