The reason I asked if you work is because i see alot of men being very controlling when they are the sole breadwinners. You havn’t specified how controlling he is and what he doesnt let you do? you said something about him saying clothes arent that importnat. Well, if you have a job, you can buy these things with your money. thats what i meant.
I’m not saying get a divorce, but if you think you’re unhappy in your marriage then you should really talk to him about it and tell him you’r very unhappy. If he still doesn’t give a damn then he really isnt worth it. But since you’re saying that you still love him he must still have some good qualities. Every marriage has problems. i still havn’t seen a couple thats 100% happy all the time no matter how nice both of them are. Marriage is about compromise and remember that you might have some flaws too that he’s willing to ignore. Howerver in certain cases, its just impossible to live happily with your spouse. I really don’t know how bad ur situation is but communication ist he most important thing in marrriage. He can’t read your mind. If he isn’t willng to listen, get some mutual freinds or close relatives to talk to him.
Hope this helps.
wish you all the best