Ladies would you consider a rishta between your husbands brother and your sister
Gents would you consider a rishta between your brother and your wife’s sister
What are the pros and cons in this type of rishta?
I’m talking about brothers from one family marrying sisters from another family.
I will come to the other option in another thread.
Re: potential rishta options
i gueess its convenient laiken boht drama hota
Re: potential rishta options
I was in similar situation. Me & my family didn't want to make the same mistake again so they said NO but that NO resulted in alot of tanay for me.
Re: potential rishta options
I have no sister, i have no brother:D
If there's a divorce, it will be an ijtamai divorce.
Re: potential rishta options
It gets Complicated.
But if the families are educated enough , it should not effect much .
But yOu never know !! when time is bad , it gets hard ..
Re: potential rishta options
It depends on how close the sisters are to each other. I've seen this situation happen and seen very bad blood coming out of it, because the sisters would get jealous of one another, and compare things like who has a better lifestyle etc; not highly recommended.
Re: potential rishta options
Nope, as a rule I wouldn't go for it or give it my vote. Kismet to kese ko nahi maloom hai-and for that simple reason I wouldn't support that union.
Re: potential rishta options
not recommended at all. doesn't matter how educated those couples are. ive seen 2 sisters (doctors) getting married to brothers who also happen to be doctors. not good
one couple gets in an argument/clash, the other couple gets the dirty mud on them. vice versa.
and i agree with one poster, it could very well lead to an "ijtimai" divorce.
Re: potential rishta options
Nope not good, seen it on a personal level, it ruins relationships & im talking about educated people here (not that that should be a factor)
I dont like two brothers being married to two sisters.
Re: potential rishta options
I dont recommend it unless every party is well aware of their responsibilities and doesnt allow the other people involved to get mud on them. Meaning, dont complain to your sister or brother about your wife/husband knowing full well they will go home and fight with their spouse about it.
Re: potential rishta options
It works for some people really good. Others it causes more drama then necessary. It's a case by case basis thing.
nah!!
Have heard of a case about sisters being jealous of each other in the same family.
Re: potential rishta options
my 2 phupoos r like dawarani and jethani lol and they r soo happy MA... and whnevr i look at emmmm it feelss soo gud... but i dunnoo if i will consider it or not personally...