Post Natal or just being rude?

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Re: Post Natal or just being rude?

@Bint_e_Naeem

Why does it even matter that the Bhabi is supposedly “shunning” anyone. Some day when OP has her own family & kids this niece won’t even matter much. Call it bitter reality or a matter of accepting different relationships as they are & being practical in life.

But that’s how it is. Who has the time to even think of these things & create such egotistical issues about it all. Not referring to you Zainy but talking about people in general especially us Desis.

Why can’t we just accept the fact that ultimately at some point in life family means your own kids & spouse. As long as her brother is happy with the family he has created with his own wife & baby who cares about why he isn’t stepping up his game & confronting wife about disrespecting in laws. Why talk to him & create unnecessary tension or drama in his life when as a first time father he is probably dealing with a lot of changes. Changes that can be stressful even for men after having a child.

And if some of you think sitting in your own room post partum, yes even after four months is wrong or some of the other things mentioned about the said Bhabi is wrong, then you guys clearly haven’t come actoss actual rude & condescending Bahus or Bhabis.

4 days or 4 months if someone doesn’t want you to be a part of their happiness or appreciate what you are doing for them, then time to move on.

Seriously? This has got to be the most ridiculous post I have come across on GS.