Re: Post Natal or just being rude?
This has nothing to do with gaining respect or love from your SIL. The focus here should be for your and your parents to be able to see and spend time with the baby and build a bond with her (the baby). As I’ve said before, the mother herself does’nt even have to be in the same room with you guys. She can stay in the bedroom, and your brother can bring the baby out to the living room. But for whatever reason, your brother doesn’t want to stand up for you guys and is allowing his wife to control the situation 100%, and you guys are CHOOSING to stand back and not push your brother when it comes to seeing the baby. We already know what the problem is. So if you guys can’t and/or won’t convince your brother to do something about it…you might as well accept that fact that you won’t be a part of this baby’s life.