Post Natal or just being rude?

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Re: Post Natal or just being rude?

@zainykhan

How r we all doing? Just to clarify, her in laws don’t expect her to do anything for them when they go over.. in fact her in laws takes food and other items for them.. because we want her to rest and be with baby.. its just when we r supposedly not allowed to interact with the baby because she keeps her self and the baby in the room.. (note: visiting frequency once in 2 weeks or so)

But any ways! like they say apni izzat apne haath mein

So we’ve stopped going over, since it seems to bother her a lot.. and I rely on photos to see my niece.. MA she’s 4 months now!! used to buy so many lil things for niece whenever I’d go shopping, but she SIL didn’t seem to like that either! So I’ve stopped that also.. On the odd occasion where I do see them at another social gathering, I patiently wait to hold my niece once everyone else is done..

It’s good to see SIL is back on the wheels and going everywhere she wants to with the baby.. Different rules are applied for her family or her husbands.. but these are petty little things I guess, she can do what she please, I’ll still love my niece!

I think you should go over regularly to be friendly and maintain ties. Also invite them over. But expect nothing, not even basic decency.

InshAllah she will change, but keep your expectations low.