Post Natal or just being rude?

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Re: Post Natal or just being rude?

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^ to be fair, I think others (who are mothers) do see/admit it too. They’re just putting all the possibilities out there. If the mother was posting here, people would be trying to make her see sense. But it’s her nand, who is obviously upset and hurt by what’s going on. Rather than just rant with her and encourage anger toward her bhabi, I think people are trying to get the OP to understand what her bhabi is going through to make her behave in such a hurtful and dismissive manner. It’s not that what the bhabi is doing is acceptable, just that it COULD be understandable. But I do feel there’s more to the situation.

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I’m not trying to incite OP against her bhabi. That’s not my intention. I believe it’s commendable that she and her family are showing patience. I’ve talked to the OP via PM and I never suggested that she respond with aggression and even she knows this. However I do agree with her that the behavior is strange. And I agree with other members (parents or otherwise) that feel that there’s a limit to even “aaaaaawwwwwnnnn’ing” in hamdardi. Despite bhabi not making an effort, main tab bhi nahi suggest karoon gi that OP and her family get rude or tough with her. Some members received criticism for merely stating that they feel bhabi is taking things too far and I think that’s silly. This opinion of theirs does not mean they encourage rudeness toward the bhabi.