Post Natal or just being rude?

[redvelvet]

Re: Post Natal or just being rude?

@zainykhan

I used to send her text every other day asking how shes doing, and really not always basing text about the baby, but more how special she is and how she is doing etc etc..

When she never used to respond, I stopped messaging.. theres no need for me to be constantly ignored like that.. I have a feeling that whats she wants in a way, to permanently damage relationships, that is just so unfair if that’s the case!

Okay maybe I’m crazy, but I’d like to think that a new mother can manage to text even a 1-line response whilst feeding her baby or while she’s lying on the bed next to her baby. I doubt that there is a shadeeed pain in her thumbs that prevents texting, or maybe I’m wrong.

As someone else has said earlier, depression may impair your judgment but it doesn’t deplete all your brain cells and totally kill off ypur conscience/zameer so that one doesn’t have any awareness about their actions. What I mean is that most of us KNOW when we are blowing off people in person. So, we think to ourselves, “Gosh, Lemme at least respond to this person’s text since I haven’t been interacting with them in person for ages.” But if one cannot even do that, then that’s really sad.