Post marriage missing parents home!

[SoniaA]

Re: Post marriage missing parents home!

@nadeemnirvana

you said

dont you get any allowance from hubby? to buy things for your self? When you say your spending thier money surely your spending your husbands money?

If its bearable and not increasing this controlling behaviour is fine if you can put up with it and get used to it.

If it is increasing and becoming more controlling each week or month then i would say put your foot down alittle, buy some or two things at shopping, say no one or two times when they ask you to do something or go somewhere you dont want to go.

I do get an allowance sounds abit childish lol

No i mean in terms of my in-laws are very nice, and its just a normal thing for MIL to do the food shopping or everyone gives her a list of things to buy. I just sometimes get embarassed ( no idea why… if this was me going shopping with my mum i’d be purchasing anything and everything!) if i just want something else LOL. Its not a control issue.

disney princess- i don’t think they actually care to be honest. When my eldest SIL was pregnant they were always talking about it , started buying little presents and so forth. It does not worry me alot as to be quite honest i’ve done alot for them, and i usually don’t get any appreciation from them so i am used to it. Also InsAllah my baby will loved alot by my MasAllah huge family and by me and my husband!

It’s such a diffculty being asian and these melodrama’s! my non asian friends just don’t give two hoots live in their own space ( although rented some of them!) and they manage to be happy in their own worlds! sigh