Even being little possessive isn’t healthy?:aq:
I am 101% possessive.
I dont trust people easily but I make friends.
About a girl in my life **yes I trust her a lot and that trust caused possessiveness **in me.
PS: For those Social ladies who will comment on my words and relating it to that PIND style possessiveness . No I down OWN her but I cant bear any other guy activity with her. So no comment about being a harsh and dominated husband.
Errrrrrrrr this isn't a chickn-egg wali kahani where we can sit and debate ke bhai "which came first?"
Trust never causes posessiveness. You can lie to yourself. But not being able to "bear" your girls "activity" with any other male suggests inadequacy issues..regardless of whether its a "social lady" commenting or a very lonely male.
And yes, you can't ever own anyone. Regardless of how many papers you sign.
(Sad innit. I was thinking of entering an auction for Josh hartnett :( )
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Thing is some women like their men to be sissy.
They want to pick up men, where ever they find them.. and want husbands to be ok with it.
They,Them self, even if their man look at some other women they go nuts.
What surprise me is how some ppl want their perversion to grow under the watch full eye of their hubbies.
They need to find a pimp instead of a husband.
aadios
Errrrrrrrr this isn't a chickn-egg wali kahani where we can sit and debate ke bhai "which came first?"
Trust never causes posessiveness. You can lie to yourself. But not being able to "bear" your girls "activity" with any other male suggests inadequacy issues..regardless of whether its a "social lady" commenting or a very lonely male.
And yes, you can't ever own anyone. Regardless of how many papers you sign.
(Sad innit. I was thinking of entering an auction for Josh hartnett :( )
Above is the absolute reply by PunchingMonk to your comment :) ladies keep shouting about trust that they can never do it, unless they have possessiveness about it.
Talking about trust. These trust thing, many times, break a relation so harshly that there remain no fact of love. Trusting someone with no thought of flirting or etc and then later on finding that a huge blunder has been caused under the shadow of the trust. it cause a lot of problems.
eg few days ago a thread someone started that his khalo had relation with a lady other than his wife causing into HIV positive.
beautyqueen1 still not able to decide as his fiance may be asking her to trust him etc.. a lot and many more examples are there which cuse this problem.
Possessiveness as I said is not Owning your partner but caring someone and knowing about partner as much as you can tell him / her about yourself.
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I think i figured it out. PM is your wife. Makes sense. In which case, you deserve each other.
be happy.
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^^ be gentle lady.. I know how to talk and also in a "VERY NICE MANNER!" Until moderators have no problem with that.
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I said be happy. 
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Somebody open the f’ing window 
I think i figured it out. PM is your wife. Makes sense. In which case, you deserve each other.
be happy.
haha omg hitchki you're so funny! You are undoubtedly the most entertaining person on gupshup for me! Your replies are priceless!
How can he demand that you be possesive? Doesn’t it come naturally? 
tumheen to meri koi baat aachi naheen lagti 
Its time we part our ways.. 
Caring wife is what is desired but possessive.
Possessive means lack of trust for whatever reason and thats definately not a good sign in a relationship.
mostly its lack of trust but sometimes its lack of confidence... as in when you think you are not good enough for him and someone might steal him from you.
haha omg hitchki you're so funny! You are undoubtedly the most entertaining person on gupshup for me! Your replies are priceless!
I like Sarcasm! BOOYAKASHAH!