Re: Possessiveness for a sibling
hmmmmm i dnt know...but when my brother got engaged i was so worried that if the girl will take care of him or not or if she really love him or not.. and when i shared my thoughts someone they said that i was being possessive...but i wasnt like that...i was just worried about my brothers future...
coz we know we love our brothers unconfitional and they do the same..but the thing which u r calling "possessiveness" it is not exactlyy like that...what we feel deep inside is tht what if our bhabhi will take him away from us...and thats the reason we start being possessive...but its good if we see +ve side of things that she (bhabhi ) will be a good life partner Insha ALLAH..and will look after our brothers more then we do...and its better to stop this feeling here in starting..and dont let anyone else feel it..