possessiveness and how to check it

be it material or personal, how must we approach this, in the context of transactional relationships that surround us, in the world as we know of it to be - a world of live people, with needs and wants, and sometimes, insecurities and self-placed limitations.

when someone is all openly welcoming, clean of any hard feelings, why do people feel that they must possess others or else, they are not valued - according to their own interpretations of what a partnership is suppposed to look like and really be.

any ideas?

Re: possessiveness and how to check it

aap psychologist hain yaa phir philosopher :) ?

Re: possessiveness and how to check it

HG,
don't pay attention to what i seem like, but what i meant to ask.
so any ideas?