Re: positive feelings and gratitude
people who are +tive and greatful are the ones we see grow reaaly old. Yet if you ask them of their age, they dont feel aged....but rather young in spirit.
Cancer patients, research tells us, the ones who makes it....against the fight of cancer are the persons with unique coping strategies or mastering techniques. Life is dear to them and they dont let -tivity dwell in them. Some plan their funerals, they order the bouquet even, but with a smiling face. They are content, lived their lives as the time meant for them.....
What differs between the sort of peple who end up in locked up institutions versus those who make it through very tough odds? Its when the psyche is stronger than the crises or traumas other people/events/life have put them through..... Also genetics play an important role here.
thats why its highly important to raise kids up with principles of pedagogy, so they become healthy positive beings.
the habits of negativity is often adapted from parents or disfunctional surroundings..... One can break the circle by recognizing the patterns/accepting them as part of personality yet an area that needs reflection and ability to change it into creative/positivity......
Thanks for your post, dushy sis.
So I gather you are a student of psychology/pedagogue-course?
Just curios... ;-)<!-- / message -->