Polygamy

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Re: Polygamy

@Jal_Pari

Yes, it doesn’t say it anywhere but a marriage contract and vows also strongly reflect the idea of being faithful to each other. If a man being in a marriage starts fantasizing about other women and wanting to get married just to be with her (without reasons such as not being able to have children or not being able to satisfy a husband), doesn’t this act breaks the basic law of marriage. Since the husband is tired of being with one women, it certainly doesn’t make it ok to go for the next one. I do not think Allah has meant a man to get another wife just becuz he feels like it and he feels so empowered. It only happens in the world becuz some women feel weak financially and emotionally and lead to accept this stupidity without any choice. On the other hand what i have seen, polygamy has mostly brought fitna and devastation upon the first family, then why would Allah allow such an act unless there is a very big reason…certainly not the one most guys think here on this forum.

and so you figure that “a very big reason” is that the wife has to be barren? i’ve seen plently of successful cases involving polygamy including my own family. Allah has allowed this but it also comes with a big obligation. Seriously if you don’t like it and don’t want to be a part of it then fine, it doesn’t matter to me, but don’t start coming up with your own interpretations of what is said in the Quran and passing them off as facts.