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Asking ur devrani wasnot a smart step
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I'm just curious how did you ask your D, and wasn't she embarrassed and ashamed?
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If it is all real, your innocence is really heart breaking. Some matches are difficult to understand, really two extreme types living together, but we don't know the reason (wisdom) behind some decisions of nature.
May ALLAH Subhana Wa'ta'aala help you, as HE is always with the weak, patient, innocent & suppressed. (You seem to be all in one)
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oh my god.
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I am really surprised at this poster.
Where do you live? How can you live with such a man?
I'd treat him like garbage because he's shown he is garbage. And what do you do with garbage? Do you keep it in your home? Feed it and put up with it? Or do you throw it out?
I am truly sorry for your pain but nowhere in Islam does it say you should be dealing with this.
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panadol lol
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Lol this one takes the cake!
plzz plzz wht should i dooo....
This is really sad and unfortunate. Why are you depressed about something that you have known all along. Ek din to aana tha jab ye sab bathaein samnay aani thi. Why are you not considering divorcing him? Where do you live? Can your family help you? Why are you keeping your children around such a man?
And I don't understand because I have a hard time reading Urdu but was your devrani involved or was she shocked about your husband wanting to sleep with her? What a disgusting man.
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if he's offering you divorce, take it and leave with your kids.. panadol won't help maybe the divorce will.
I dont know who is lying to mee my hubby or both of them.yes devrani was shocked bt i didnt tell her the whole truth.she only knows that my husband demands a bad words for her bt she dont know which type of demand he is doing.
My husband tell me they only kiss and do hugs and nothing else bt if it goes to do somthing other he will not step back.and he is refusing to open the whole thing coz i tell all rubbish to my saaas.He says it was joke nothing else coz i was doing shak on some behaviour with devrani so he felt bad and says if i expact that things then yes all r going i. That way...
I said my devrani this is not a small prob if she is clear then.she had to take quran to proof hrr innocense bt she refused that she is not wrong then why should she do that.she says ur hubby is talking all rubbish and now not excepting he should do first then.she will do.
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Where is your devar in all this?!? Jaakay uthao usko!!!! Lagta hai ke khud hazaar Panadol khaakay beta hai...does he not see/know/realize what his brother and wife are doing. Nothing in this scenario makes sense. If this is all true, then grow a backbone! Take your kids, dignity and self respect and leave. You will be much better off.
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is this even possible? demands a bad word? 
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Bull****
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Devar knows nothing of all story.i want to call my dad who lives in same country bt he have no respect for them .he was saying yes call him to take u away frm here bt kids will not going with u and my saas also said dont disclose whole thing to ur dad that is not gud.so i stopped.we both r not talking to eachother i am living wiyh him only for my kids .
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nice thinking, u must call your father, but dont listen to ur saas she is only thinking about her son thats why she is saying not to tell the complete story. Just tell him the entire story and regarding kids, not to worry now a day kids have better sense than adult, INshaAllah you will end up having ur kids with you. The type of person ur husband is, it is not possible for him to manage kids on his own. Call your father now, stop wasting time on GS, just do it
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How old are your kids? Leave them with him for some time, he will bring them back to you within few days. he can never take care of kids. it one of the toughest jobs i know of. Also he doesnt seem to be a caring loving father at all. so chances are zero that he ll be ready to keep them forever.
if this story is really true, i really do not know what are you doing with him till now. This guy , which is your husband, is making me vomit.
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Looking at your previous threads and posts on the forum, I think you are not trolling.
If this all is indeed true, then you do know what to do. He continues to do this all so openly, because he know that you will not take a stand.
And it is always easier to speak when ypu are not in such a situation yourself. Lekin deep down you know what you should do. Ask your fathers help and advice. And make this gandagi stop.
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incompetent or impotent?? 