PLZ USE UR MINDS

[rapunzle]

my sis is eating up my mind to get a solution to her problem i-e
how can u say no to ur best friend on staying at ur place in ur papers in a way t hat she is not hurt

[Dhoti_Main_Dhamaka]

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if its abt one’s best friend then saying NO shouldnt be any problem

[rapunzle]

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@Dhoti Main Dhamaka

if its abt one’s best friend then saying NO shouldnt be any problem

oho it is a problem na
tabhi to she is eating up ma brain

[BulBuli]

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^ yea what dhoti said

[rapunzle]

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@BulBuli

^ yea what dhoti said

yar if saying NO wasnt a problem wud i b asking here

[K_Khan]

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just tell her that ur Mom ain’t allowing you to stay out..

[seashell]

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i dont really get the dilemma..let me get this straight, the friend wants to stay over at your house and your sister doesnt want her to but wants to say it without hurting her feelings?and whats that about papers?...im sorry im a little slow today!

[rapunzle]

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@seashell

i dont really get the dilemma..let me get this straight, the friend wants to stay over at your house and your sister doesnt want her to but wants to say it without hurting her feelings?and whats that about papers?..im sorry im a little slow today!

well she wants to say no cause us k papers ho rhey hein

[Iconoclast]

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Mom or Dad r the best excuses.

[rapunzle]

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@Iconoclast

Mom or Dad r the best excuses.

exactly mein bhi kuch asa he reason soch rhi hu

[fghd]

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if she is best fren then she will def. understand instead of gettin hurt ...

tell her to talk it out with her n hopefully she will understand :-)

[Amber11]

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why does she want to stay during exams...and why doesnt your sister want her to stay???answers would help clear up the circumstances:)

[rapunzle]

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@Amber11

why does she want to stay during exams…and why doesnt your sister want her to stay???answers would help clear up the circumstances:)

lol well when they both get 2gether they dont study:smack:

[rapunzle]

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@Evilmastermind

if she is best fren then she will def. understand instead of gettin hurt …

tell her to talk it out with her n hopefully she will understand

lol trust me i know her

[Amber11]

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@rapunzle

lol well when they both get 2gether they dont study:smack:

Then easy way out…we have guests coming over to stay…or ami abu has to go somewhere important and they insist ion taking her !!

[Mamaof3]

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I've dealt with a couple of these situations and beleive me they dont care if other guests are coming, if your parents disapprove, etc.

You are going to have to come right out and SAY it...."I'm really sorry, you are a cherished friend but I cannot have you live with me."

Nothing else is going to work. I could tell you the horror stories of some of the leeches we've had to deal with but you really dont need to hear about it...just be assured that you need to be firm and you need to tell them in all reality and in plain language what the deal is.

[farishta2]

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Your sister should say:
the parents refused because they don't think we can study at all when we are together..I tried to convince them, but dad said, no arguments :)

I was never allowed to stay over at my friends for any reason..so i would have to come up with some creative excuses so their feelings wouldnt be hurt :)