Plz help

***Assalamualaikum to all.. :slight_smile: ***

***I’m new here and was seeking for some information. Please can someone enlighten me with this matter. I am very confused…dnt knw hw to say it…bt i need to knw this. ***

***I was confused about the bit…where..do you have to have sexual intercourse each time u wanna child. Or is it just the once when u get married ok?? ***

Can someone help me please? and also give any hadiths available from the islamic view.

Jazakallah :slight_smile:

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When you want to conceive a child, the best time for intercourse is around the 14th day after the onset of menses. That is around the time when an egg is released. The egg will live for about 24 hours. When you have intercourse, the sperms will live up to 3 days. So timing intercourse with those things in mind can help you plan for a pregnancy.

those are huge generalities and apply to women who have a very regular cycle. Ovulation can occur earlier or later. Not every cycle results in ovulation. There are over the counter ovulation kits available which can help you pinpoint your fertile days and this can help too.

Good luck to you!

Thanks for that…bt I wanted to knw..

Do u ave to have sex each time u want a kid. Or does it happen automatically…like when u get married u ave to ave it once I knw that…bt after that each time u wanna child u gotta ave it or what??? Dat I dnt understand :s

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how old are you ?

sex after marriage is not only for producing a kid, its also for pleasure.

well of course each time you want a new kid, u also need new sperms to fertile the new egg, so sex intercourse(s) each time for a new kid.

Yes you have to have sex every time you want to try for a baby.
As long as you don't have sex when you are on your period you can do it as much as you and your partner want

OMG!!! :O datz spooky...lolzz
yh guess u figured m under age...bt thanks...u've answered my questions peepz...luv ya all...tc!! :)

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WOOOW!

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STUPID Pwiincess ! I think you turned in to a frog after kissing a prince.

Your question is not entertaining nor innocent.

hop away now

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Married humans mate only once in a year, if female gets pregnant then they do not mate till the baby is born and is one year old , then they mate again.
Unmarried humans can mate whenever they want.

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this cant be serious!

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whoa :o

That makes so much sense. :jhanda:

:emmy:

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Meanwhile, Pwinncess, I hope the polite guppies/guppans were able to answer your question.

If not, then here is a summary.

When you get married, feelings will develop between you and your husband. You will have sexual relationships which is very normal. At some point, if you do not use contraceptives, you will get pregnant. You will not get pregnant each time you have sex. But yes, you cannot get pregnant just by thinking about it or via air particles. You need to have sex.

God bless.

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wah! That's how it should be - lol

Listen B** i wasn't tryna be entertaining...nor did i say m innocent! :@ **
I just wanted to knw some information! Coz my frndz chat crap n i wanted to knw what was the truth thatz all...bt anywayz for ppl who explained thanks! TC! :)

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Thanks for the info NIKSIK i understood now.. :)

LOL - okay ma bad. Maybe you are in your pre-teens and have questions.

good that someone else was able to explain it to you.

dyingmadness LOL

the question was cute though,,, bless.

LOL . And this response is even cuter.

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Girls have a womb with ovaries that produce eggs. Boys have testicles that produce sperm. Once a month, an ovum (singular term for one Ovary) releases an egg that travels down the fallopian tubes and into the womb. If during sex, the sperm of the boy reaches the egg that is on it's way down the tubes towards the womb, or is already in the womb, the egg and the sperm "meet" to fertilise the egg. The fertilising of the egg results in a baby developing. The fertilised egg "attaches" itself to the walls of the womb. If you took a pregnancy test now, it would be positive and you are pregnant. The fertilised egg will develop into an embryo and then into a fully grown baby in 9 months time. If the sperm did not reach the egg, or if you didn't have sex, then the egg is unfertilised and leaves the womb. This is when your period starts. The "fleshy" lining of the womb breaks down and is expelled as a period along with the egg (also known as menses). Then the walls of the womb develop again awaiting a fertilsed egg to attach itself to the womb wall. This is called one menstrual cycle and on average last between 22-40 days. Each time you have a period it's the end and then the start of a new monthly cycle.

If you are married and want to get pregnant then you have sex. If you are not married and DO NOT WANT TO GET PREGNANT, then you DO NOT, EVER, UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES HAVE SEX!!..EVER! (Get my point?!!)

Pwiincess how old are you and have you started having periods yet?