please tell me how should i deal with this?

[Reha]

Re: please tell me how should i deal with this?

@cute_ainee

when we are alone,he is good infact great at times..but when in public,he is tooo bad.. it’s difficult to know what to do. if i come back at him with angry comment,then i am creating a public scene and it makes us both look bad plus other people are very uncomfortable. but if i do/say nothing,it makes me look/feel like a doormat, and husband does’t even realize he did anything wrong..

Some guys are like that. They want to be seen as the controlling/in charge/dominant one in front of other people. He might be good to you alone and act up in front of others so people don’t get the idea ke ye joru ka ghulaam hai.

Talk to him one on one and tell him ke jab aap dosron ke samnay battameezi karte hein to log sochtay hein ke iska shauhar kitna ajeeb sa hai. Apni bivi se kaise baat karta hai.

In front of others, ignore him. Completely. So he understands its not funny.