I think the point is being missed here..
The original topic was about our own sisters being used and destroyed?
The fact is that there are good and bad people in all walks of life. You are going to get the girls that go against islam and you are going to get the ones that set a very good example.
You cannot judge a society by a handful or individuals nor can you claim that everyone will hold the same view.
I have lived in London all my life, and I would like to think that my experiences have taught me a lot about this society. I see a huge uprising of muslim sisters who are not afraid anymore to wear hijab anymore or to speak about islam. Even before, these same sisters had the same views, but didn't know how to express them.
Society is changing my friend, don't you think our backward views should too?
Islam teaches us to use our brains when it comes to matters that have not been explicitly explained.
If you have a daughter, how will you bring her up? Are you going to teach her about islam from the Quran and Sunnah, or are you going to teach her the way I was taught.. with all the hypocrisy and superstition that Pakistani society offered?
If you bring up your kids in the right way then inshallah they will not go astray. Even if your daughter does want to marry her own choice.. the only reason you should have of not accepting him is if he is not muslim, or is of bad character. What does pride have to do with it?
I've seen the way some fathers react when their daughters say they want to marry their own choice. They feel so threatened by this, that these cowardly fathers resort to hypocritical unislamic ways to control their offspring. Is this what Allah teaches us?
It's no wonder that some of them run away.
Now, Mr SuperSonicKid. We are humans. We have been made imperfect and we DO make mistakes. 1000 years of our experiences cannot compare with 1 second of what Allah knows. Hence Allah knows best.
You talk about your friends having experienced these "bad paki girls". Tell me, were they giving Dawa to these girls when they met them? or were they one of the reasons that these girls were like that?
We all need to look at our own lives and see what is happening to our own sisters, wives and mothers before we start judging others.
We all can preach, but how many of us are actually prepared to do something about it? I don't mean just talking.. action.
Assalam-Alaikum