Re: please help
You guys should read the post #5 posted by the thread opner where she has clearly stated the situation of the house and who are family members, why they are living in one house and what problem she is facing.
From that post I gathered that the husband do not want to live in a seprate home without the parents. He wants to live in the same house where the parents and other family members can live even though wife is WILLING to take care of his parents if he gets a seprate home where only she, him and the inlaws resides. Also she stated that the husband is well off and he can afford plus she stated the other borther in laws are working and mking money so surely they can afford a house or even rent an appartment on their own but it seems like they are taking advantage of the LOVE that the big brother has for the family.
I see the huby is mistaken here and should try to work things out properly and I would agree with the lady what she has suggested. But it seems like huby has too much love for the family and is unable to see where he is doing something wrong unless there is another side of the story. May Allah help them and keep the shaytan out of this.