Re: Please help
I think PCG, Psyah and Hypnotix have given good advice to you. Whatever you do, do not make him feel as if you are right and his mother is wrong. A husband is never happy in a situation where he has to choose between his mother and wife. Perhaps the best strategy would be to win his mother over somehow even when she is wrong. What you are facing is not uncommon especially in our cultures. There is a very big communication gap between us and our previous generation where no one could speak or move in front of a family elder or young ones were not allowed to have their own opinions.
Were you born and raised in US and your hubby in Pak?