please help with sincere suggestions..

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As for as my observation is , I believe GIRLS/WOMEN has more EGO than Man/Boy.
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Hmmm. Interesting point of view, but:

A. I don't think that's accurate. Everybody has ego. Some more than others. It's really difficult to say one group as a whole has more than another because we're egotistical about different things.

B. I don't think this is the poster's case because if she had ego issues, she would be shouting right back at him when he starts shouting at her. Instead, she says she remains quiet...that's actually the sign of a very non-egoistic person because to remain quiet in the face of so much criticism requires a person to really swallow her pride.

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COUNT YOUR MISTAKES , what are Your Mistakes ?

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It's always good to be honest about your flaws. Sometimes, if you work on improving yourself, it helps make the world around you a bit better. However, I'm not sure if this is what she needs to do here...she states her husband always takes the stance of "I'm right and you're wrong...ALWAYS." With a person like that, if you bluntly admit your own faults in front of him/her without careful consideration, well it's just fuel to the fire. They just hang on to those admissions of fault for a long time to come and when another argument erupts, they are more likely to say "Well you admitted you do X, Y, Z so I'm right AGAIN."

Please stay strong queen. Keep remaining calm and try to engage him in a relaxed, logical discussion. And keep praying.

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we dont know u so what makes u think that we will give a dishonest reply :p

is maslay ka sirf aik he hal hai...Peer sahab ki puri and taveez.
ghool ker pila dain...afaka hoga.

bus app ko aik kala baqray or aik kalay murghay ka intezam kerna hoga or char panch hazar dollar or bus thoray say (~40) rozay rehkanay hoon gain. or satar din tek ghareeboon ko khana kilana hoga...or bus raat ko aik jungle main 30 phairay peepal k tree k neechay dainay hoon gain..

i hope each and every woman reads, understand and follow this. This is a great example of a wife :k:

there is a confine line between maharani and nokerani :stuck_out_tongue:

I 'd like a hybrid of both haha, just joking..but no seriously..such a hybrid would be awesome.

nadz, this is not as easy as you are thinking, there is a huge difference between being engaged and being married, once you are engaged, the relation is still on see-saw..if you want, you can make him afraid of few things to get the results of your choice because he knows, (if you want) you can choose someone else over him too.. this means still you have time to think over and over again, and being married, the boys are 1000% sure of there relation (once they know their wife completely and act according to that), so they do what they want to do, my husband knows i love him so much..not because i keep on saying him i love him, but because true love can never be hidden and vice versa, he admits his points too, but for this, he wants me tackle him..rather to change himself, now, i just asked suggestions how can i tackle such a person with stubborn and egoistic values... :)

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..and i got so many good replies :) but the better solution is i think, i should remain quiet.. on his will, should speak a little and again stay quiet :D this will i think make him think twice and thrice what he is doing! and someewhere in his heart will feel his mistake!

and yes, i also suggest you, fine if you done this trick in your engagement period, but PLEASE make sure never apply this after your marriage.. never (even in jokes) say to your husband of leaving him or home or kids..... infact NEVER LEAVE YOUR PLACE!!! :) BEST OF LUCK!

sabr

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sorry that I haven't read all of the replies and pardon me if I have missed a point that has already been made....but......

why is it always necessary to "break the ego"?
can't we compromise and find a way without pushing our partners to their knees?

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Well guys do need that confidence to deal with things.

I mean confidence has to come from the self-worth of somthing.

some people say man with ego is saxy.

< do i look saxy