inspiron if this helps you ..i had a total arranged marriage too and i was equally scared about these things that you mentioned. Plus I felt naive and immature too.
But now Alhamdullilah i think i have found a great friend, we hangout , we eat out , watch movies, joke around and do alot of positive constructive stuff together :)
Good luck ! IA everything would go great for you :)
Thank You very much enigmatic, that does make me feel better.
What I dont understand about arranged marriages is how you love someone just because they are your husband or finace. Again part of my naivety.
Well i am not married yet but i can tell you it takes hell of a commitment and responsibility. You will probably make new friends and insha'Allah travel as well. Wish you nothing but best inspiron!!. One thing that married ppl tell me which i take this advise seriously is: Shoro shoro din harrai..baqi sarai din wasai he bharay jatai hain.
I recently got married and MA right now our marriage is everything I always wanted and more. Not that we don't have disagreement and some tough times etc but I wouldn't trade this in for anything! But then this wasn't an arranged marriage. However, I would say even in the arranged scenario, I would talk to the potential rishta very openly and honestly. Tell him what's important to you in life & marriage and ask him what's important to him. Don't go into it blindly - make sure there's compatibility and then for the rest leave to Allah and hope for the best. Good luck!