i did talk with my parents today but they say that big city is not good for a child. They say that there we gona b alone and no relatives. They was angry and say that we r mad who just thought that we gona move. They said that we r acting like kids.
I really dont know what to do. They dont want to understand us, that we r doing this for our baby. They said that" when its much pakistani togheter they always talk about eachothers and much stories, and its good to not b in much pakistani" And if we wanna move there its much pakistani then why we dont move to pakistan they said.
What should we do? I dont know...Please help.
If this is there reason for living in a small town away from other desi families then either they are snobs or they are loners. If they are living in small town with no desi living there just for financial reasons and never wanted to look into what more the world has to offer then they are either lazy or stuck into their comfort zone.
There are many people in this world who do not want you to progress and think big , they want to drag you down so you parents might be that kind of party too.
Now it is your choice to listen to some snobs , loners, lazy , stuck up or drag-you-down kind of people , or you want to progress in life and seek some good for yourself and your kids. If everybody thought as your parents then we would all be still living in caves.
P.S: Don't get me wrong , I love elders and respect their wisdom, but all elders are not equally wise.