his family came to my sister's wedding and my uncle really liked his family and he did talk to my dad about him but my dad got pissed off and told my uncle to never talk about that again! O GOD it's sooooo hard..... i sat down and really thought of the things that could go wrong and well i remember him saying once that no matter who he marry's that girl has to live with my family in pakistan and i know he is very posessive but awsome at the same time..... and my plan is to get married in pakistan and come back so i can go to nursing school and become a nurse and i know he would've never allow me to leave pakistan and his parents............. maybe this is the reason why Allah Main doesn't want me getting married with him...... but no matter what the problem is...... bottom line........ it hurts like s*** and its soooooooo hard! i will do istakhara....and i will sit down and make myself understand all this! and i will start a new and happy life! and try to have fun with everything thats related to my wedding! the last time i talked to that guy was 3 weeks ago and we talked about everything and he agreed with everything i said and that we have to move on..... but it just kills me when i think that the last thing he said to me was I Love You meri jaan and he cried sooo much and i said I love You to Jaan and i cried and then we just said bye....... and hung up.......
I feel for you man xxx
Look don't worry darln everythn gna be ok inshala just plz don't speak to this guy anymore if you know your parents will never agree and you will not do anythn against your parents wishes. There will be many times you will wna contact him or him you but don't go there trust me, and don't lock yourself up in your room thinkin about this go out have fun. I think if you knew who you will be marrying that would make things easier for you (if he a nice guy)
Be strong turn to Allah (swt) whenever you are feeling weak. It isn't as hard as you think it is trust me.
When you get married i hope your swept off your feet.
Take Care Huni xx